This year, however, I have got one. I want to keep in touch more with my distant friends. There really are no excuses for not sending the occasional "how are you" email and Facebook makes that kind of casual contact very easy. Not everyone uses Facebook, however, and this Christmas has brought news of really big things in people's lives (the death of a spouse, major surgery for a daughter) that I knew nothing about. In the days when I lived in the same town as these people there was no need of special keeping in touch - we saw each other at the shops, we visited each other's houses, we knew what was going on. Now that we live in different places it has proved harder to keep that awareness of other people's lives.
So this year I will be sending emails to old friends. Some of them will no doubt wonder what has come over me - why do I think they need news of me? In actual fact I will be sending some of my news in the hope that they will reciprocate with some of theirs.
As an additional impetus to my good resolution I have bought myself a diary which includes 26 detachable postcards inserted between the weeks of the year. My plan is to wing off a postcard to someone in my address book every fortnight during the year.
What an excellent idea. It's so easy to lose touch with old friends and such a joy when you're reunited.
ReplyDeleteOne of my 49 before 50 goals was to write to each of the people who sent us Christmas cards. Unfortunately I didn't get round to it last year, but I'm going to give it another go this year.
I like the idea of the postcards in the diary. A useful reminder.
Hope you don't mind that I've borrowed your photo of the Manx sheep - it's fantastic!
ReplyDeleteI agree with you so much on postcards and friendship. Postcards are a way of sending a little hug, I feel. I wrote a post on the topic on my blog too (http://pennylindopdesigns.blogspot.com/2010/02/art-of-postcards.html)